VIRTUOUS WOMEN ARE SCARCE …her price is far above rubies

VIRTUOUS WOMEN ARE SCARCE …her price is far above rubies


Proverbs 12:4 A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.

Proverbs 31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

(KJV)

Little foxes like chewing gum, make up(painting of faces), nagging, staying out late, uncleanliness, pride, etc. can become the termite that will eat away some marriages. As a spouse be diligent to identify what your partner dislikes or what is offensive to him/her.

Oftentimes, this offensive thing eats away at your marriage.

Do you know what's bothering your spouse? Do you know the root of his/her frustration? Do you know what he/she just can't let go of? And most importantly, do you know how to draw it out and how to help them finally heal?

Most people have something that continues to bother them, something that happened years ago that they never let go of, something that they never "moved through" with their spouse. And there it sits; getting heavier and heavier as the years go by. Until finally it comes out as, "I'm not happy" or "I want a divorce" or "I don't love you anymore."

Old wounds that don't get treated aren't really old; they remain fresh. They're still open sores that eat away at your marriage from the inside without you even knowing it. How do you stop the bleeding? How do you finally let bygones be bygones and move on in your relationship in a healthy productive way?